you can't do it all.

Every time I hear these words I feel both relief and frustration. I want to do it all... But I really can't do it all! I'm so conflicted!! And this is why I cried in one on my classes today... Kind of embarassing.  I can't even fully explain why I just needed to cry.

In my cohort we've been working with a second grade class to learn how to teach math. Last week we went in to get an idea about the math concepts these students have grasped and where we should begin with our math lessons we will be teaching. We each got a chance to work with an individual student and I worked with Little Miss S we will call her :)

Sadly, she was way behind her classmates in her mathematical understanding. At the beginning she would simply guess a random answer without even giving the problem a try. As I worked more with her we began to have the funnest time putting our own names and favorite things into the math problems. ex. Little Miss S has 7 scoops of ice cream. Karina gave her 8 more scoops of ice cream. How many scoops of ice cream does she have now? As we were both laughing and having fun she began to try the problems and was even solving a few correctly!  She was the sweetest little girl.

So today in my math class, we began to plan a group lesson to teach to these second graders. Because the other students were so advanced, we planned for our next lesson to use concepts that I knew would be way over Little Miss S's (haha) head.

As my teacher came around to check our groups on the lesson we were planning, I expressed to him that I was worried about Little Miss S and how this lesson would not be developmentally appropriate for her. He put his hand on my back and sweetly told me that this isn't our class and we were just going to have to focus on teaching the best lesson for the group as a whole. And those words I need to hear but also hate, "you can't do it all."

And the tears just came. I thought of Little Miss S sitting there in the back of the class, not understanding what was being taught and not motivated to learn these difficult concepts. Alone, and not getting the attention, individual instruction, and time that she needs. Why is she sitting in the back? The furthest away from the teacher when she needs her time and attention the most?

I think I really gravitate to those students that are not getting the attention they need. The ones left out, needing a friend or a little bit of help. I had a similar experience working with a little girl, J, last semester. Her father had abused her, her mom was not in her life, she had moved to the school just a few months before and she was falling behind in math. Her teacher didn't take the time to get her a math book, flashcards, or any of her own supplies to do the work expected of her, but instead sits her as far away from the teacher as possible in the back of the class! And then I, the only one who would give her attention and the care she desperately needed, was asked to stop volunteering with J (just as she was making progress!) because the teacher thought my work with her was not necessary/more distracting to J than helpful- she would rather have J struggle on her own. This broke my heart. 

A lot of my feelings on this could be because I was the one in high school that was alone and forgotten... and that hurt. And if I can do anything to reach out to those who have ever felt that way, or just need someone to care about them, I want to be that person and do everything I possibly can. I don't want to hear that I can't do it all.

And at the same time I do. I'm stressed. Practicum is starting on Monday. I know I won't be perfect at teaching, I know I will have so much to do all the time, but I still want to do all that I can for those students I will be working with.

How am I going to do it all? Or be ok with not being able to do it all?

Ok that felt really good to get all of that out :)

The Secret of Happiness...

surround yourself with people who unconditionally and totally adore you, and go have fun.

Couch Time :)

Clarissa's 20th birthday 

 Kelsey and Landon came to visit!!

 Dinner with some friends

 Saying goodbye to Sister Perkins!!

Hot chocolate- just because we can :)

 Dinner at The Pie with Trent

 Meatloaf Dinner :)

 Celebrating Holly's first week of Practicum!!

 St. Patrick's Day Dinner

 Midnight Showing of Tangled

This semester has been very busy, but life is great. How about a little good news minute to update you on my life? :)

• I have been hired to be an efy counselor this summer in Georgia and Florida!! and Ogden as well :)
• I am staying at school for spring term- I'm only taking one class! and I will still be working in the Math Lab... but life is going to be a party!! 
• I am working right now with a third grader who is struggling in math and I absolutely love her!
• Winter Semester will be over in less than a month!
• Pay day is tomorrow!!
• I had a picnic with my roommate yesterday and we laid out in the sun for almost two hours!! 
• I am going to be a Head Secretary in the Math Lab!! 
• Its starting to be running weather!! Hopefully some 5 and 10K's here soon!!

Love always, Karina

There Was A Little Cricket

I made this video for one of my Early Childhood Education classes where we are learning how to use technology in the classroom. Doing this project has made me crave to be a children's book writer/illustrator even more...

My roommate and I were talking about our majors a couple of weeks ago and how it can be scary to plan out your future and invest so much time into something that may not end up being what you were hoping for. She told me a story she heard once about a father encouraging his son to find what it is that you spend your free time thinking about and pursue a career in it. I've realized over the last few weeks that when I have nothing else to work on or to think about, I come up with ideas for children's books and illustrations. And it's addicting.

Recently I've started writing my ideas down/doodling in a notebook so I won't forget these ideas and hopefully one day I can turn them into my own children's books :) That thought just made me so happy :)

Yes I am still majoring in Early Childhood Education, but I don't have to worry if teaching doesn't work out for me. I don't have to have it all figured out right now- I love a lot of different things and there are many things I want to do in my life and I just keep reminding myself that I have time :)

Everything You've Missed...

How am I ringing in the New Year? 

Reading a good book, in my sweats, while roasting in front of a fireplace. :) 

Tomorrow I will head back down to school, but tonight I'm doing nothing and loving it. And I thought, hey, I should blog before life gets crazy again. I know I've neglected this blog this last semester, so I guess I should briefly fill you in on some fun things I did....

 Girls Night at Olive Garden

 Built a Giant Fort in Our Living Room

 Made Fruit Pizzas for FHE. Yeah, I think I'm a pretty cool mom :)

Free Bagels Every Friday Morning!!!

Waffle Night with friends

Dressed up as cavewomen for Halloween :)

 BYU Basketball Games

Ugly Sweater Day on campus

 Later used our Ugly Sweaters for our family Chirstmas Card

Applebees with my family

 Dinner with some of Holly's relatives

 SNOWMOBILING!!

I really should take more pictures this next semester... I don't think a single one of these photos is from my camera haha yep i just checked. none. I will be better :)

and now I'm feeling lazy again... back to doing nothing!